Comment by josephg

10 hours ago

It doesn't read as emphasis to me. It reads like the person is trying hard not to curse, and they think "crap" is a curse word. It's a little bit adorable, like I'm reading a comment from an obedient child.

I guess you are not from the generation of texters. This how languages work we used to use * as a way to avoid getting censored it over time became a way to curse or give emphasis.

  • I'm definitely from the generation of texters and there was never any censorship going on with SMSs... yours must be a cultural or regional thing.

    • Maybe you didn't have T9 enabled but I consider it censorship when I type bitch and it gives me chubi.

      Even now I wonder if I am allowed to type bitch here...

      I guess we will find out.

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  • Am I, with around 30, in this generation? Putting * in words seems like self censorship to me. Still, might have a cultural component. German here.

    • It can be used for in-jokey comedic effect. For example, referring to M*cr*sft W*nd*ws or Br*dc*m as though they were offensive terms. Or *r*cl*.

    • I'm in my 40s and * is self-censorship to me. It must be a cultural thing.

  • Sounds like a generational thing.

    I grew up texting. But in the 90s any profanity filters could just be turned off in settings.

    • People are getting used to censor themselves in order not to be reported, banned, or «hurt » other sensibilities. The words « rape » couldn’t be written in instagram for example, what a great way to deal with such a serious issue. Mainly an American thing spreading away from young people if you ask me. Sorry America, just being honest here.

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    • After reading through the threat here it seems more like a cultural thing. The US has quite a lot of filters for profanity. I remember from my youth that in 2009 Eminem was a guest in a Germany TV show and very happy to swear as much as possible without being censored. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2OC-yKZ5Yag

  • Is that a cultural/national thing instead of an age thing?

    I've never had texts censored by texting providers, they're not supposed to read texts in the first place (at least around here).

  • I’ve been texting since it was first a thing (sms on Nokia phones) and no one I knows does this. We just say shit, fuck, and crap.