Comment by Loquebantur

Who said it was besides you?

To take "being frustrated" as an end to personal responsibility and consequent action is defeatism.

When your previous attempts didn't work, change your approach. When you don't have one, you must find or invent one. When you don't know how, research that.

"Doing nothing because being frustrated" and scolding people who point out your circular reasoning does nothing besides guaranteeing defeat and demise.