Comment by Aurornis

5 days ago

> The dinner + tip is going to cost $200. Parking is going to cost $50 - $100 if you go into a city.

Why are you driving into a city that costs $100 to park in and then to a restaurant that costs $100 per person if money is a consideration?

Go to a local restaurant. Go to one outside of that city. Do literally anything other than the scenario you described.

I guarantee that if you're near a city where you can find $100 parking, you can find 100 or 1000 amazing small restaurants that are affordable and interesting.

This is a type of defeatism where someone imagines the worst possible scenario, erases all other options, and then pretends it's a choice between the worst scenario or nothing at all.

> restaurant that costs $100 per person

I had a burger, fries and 2 beers last night at one of these small local restaurants. It was $47 with tip. I had a bbq plate the other day at a local restaurant. 2 meats, 2 sides was $26 dollars before a drink or tip was added.

Going out in the US is so expensive now, even the low end, that you might as well do something nicer.

You haven't seen "event pricing" parking in cities have you? I was in Atlanta a while back and I was unfortunate enough to need to go in to the city during some big concert. Every garage had event parking prices that were $80+.

Plus there is no way parking is $100. SpotHero is like $22.

  • If it's a sporting event or concert and you need to drive $50 is pretty easy to hit. Major downtowns are solidly $40 on a regular night out if you can't find a meter (which is capped at 2 hours and a parking ticket costs you $50). If you have two cars because not everyone is coming from the same place you're completely hosed.

    Going to the movies costs my family $100 without concessions. The zoo $80, the aquarium $100, art museum $80. There's a decent public park system but we're often the only ones there. McDonalds doesn't have playplaces anymore, sleepovers barely exist. The nearest bowling alley is 30 minutes away and runs us about $60 an hour without food.

    Add food to anything (which most places don't allow from outside) and you're sometimes doubling the price for complete trash.

  • I assume this is attributed to valet and tipping.

    • Some of it is. But those are often mandatory expenses. A lot of places only offer valet parking, and not tipping makes you look like an asshole.

    • Some people live on a different planet.. The last social event I did (last night) I took the train to their house which cost me $5 return, and we went out to eat at a Japanese restaurant where I got a Chicken Katsu for $17AUD. This social event cost me not much more than if I had sat at home and ate dinner normally.

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