Comment by wavewrangler

You know this, but it is worth repeating - I think you just need to always make good decisions, strive to have a moral backbone, and don’t be afraid to let him see you fail now and then, because he needs to know what it’s like to get back up.

How you act throughout your life, is how your son will act in his life. And it might seem like at times he doesn’t care or is above it, but he will ultimately do how Dad did it. This isn’t taught so much as it is imprinted. for me at least, that means: what will your son teach you? You will see just how much it matters.

Maybe an analogy is that it’s like LLM training…the better the training data, the better model. You are the training data. Remember that! And congratulations.