Comment by keithpeter

"If your first priority is your kids, your first priority is not your work. That's fine, it's a choice, but there is a frequent claim that the massive incremental time demand of kids makes one so much more time efficient at work that it more-than-compensates."

I am not young. I've been attending funerals recently, and meeting family members I have not seen for 30+ years. None of us were comparing notes about our productivity.